About Kathryn Gates

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I am psychotherapist and health coach Kathryn Gates.

I work with adults, teens, couples, and families to improve relationships – with yourself and those around you. When your relationships are healthy, studies have shown you are avoiding early death more than if you were taking blood pressure medication or being exposed to air pollution.

Clients tell me that their lives have become more fulfilling than they knew they could be.

During and after college in St. Louis, I taught dance and group exercise, making use of my BFA in Dance from Webster University. My clients who wanted to “get in shape” quickly showed me how many other factors affected the way their bodies worked. Feelings, thoughts, and relationships affected how clients moved. On a basic level, if one of my students was up late the night before, arguing with a spouse, she had less energy in our fitness class. Due to anxiety about traffic on the way to the gym, a personal training client might feel more energy and increase his workout intensity.  These emotional, mental, and relational factors also affected how clients felt about their bodies. Fascinated with this deeper level that could truly help people find what they want -beyond basic fitness advice- I knew there were better ways to help people get what they really wanted when they came to me for personal training. It was time to delve into psychology in order to understand why people were doing the things they were doing. Even when they said they didn’t want to do them. In 2007, I pursued a Masters’ degree in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy at Pepperdine University in Southern California.


Accomplishing a marathon or a detox cleanse is not going to change the shame you feel about yourself.



While in grad school, I also worked as a Physical Therapy Aide and Personal Trainer. I was a counselor at Tarzana Treatment Center in Los Angeles and I taught for the Kinesiology Department of California State University at Los Angeles. Consequently, I saw again and again people’s physical parts contributing to their mental stability. I saw how a person’s emotions affected their physical status. The interdependence of the physical, mental, and emotional aspects of a person continued to fascinated me. We can not be healthy without a consistent pursuit of balance.


I have provided fitness consultation for recovery centers in Austin, Texas and am I’m thrilled to practice  online psychotherapy to residents of Texas. Aiding women, men and teens in this way is so fulfilling to me because I get to see people improve the way they think about themselves, their abilities, and the possibilities that are available to them. I get to show people how to allow positivity into their relationships. I get to see my clients transition their lives in ways they often didn’t know were possible. I’m licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist in the State of Texas and am nationally certified by the American Council on Exercise (ACE). 




Check out Kathryn in Austin Fit Magazine’s January 2018 Detox issue.


Sample Kathryn’s eBook, Do Not See A Therapist Until You’ve Done These 5 Things


Kathryn is a Marriage.com Featured Expert





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